So today is “Spread the Word to End the Word” What word might that be? The “r-word,” you know, “retard.” Although this post doesn’t specifically deal with the “r-word,” it’s about how words can hurt and ultimately has the same underlying goal: RESPECT! People of ALL abilities deserve respect no matter what. I will probably write more on the “r-word” later, but for now re-read this post I wrote last year about respect and tolerance for children with disabilities.
If there was ever a question I absolutely abhor hearing, that would be the one. [Notice, I used abhor, not hate, not dislike, but abhor – extreme repugnance or aversion; to detest utterly; loathe – get the idea?] This one simple question can cause so much damage and most don’t even know it.
Let me first make clear, I don’t care what other people think or have to say about my kid. It doesn’t make US treat him any differently, love him any less, or change his plan of care. Kids, however, are another story. Sure, he’s not old enough now to understand the inquisitive eyes, but one day he’ll see just how cruel the world is and wonder what’s really going on. We took Braxton out a few times over the weekend after his surgery, and you would NOT believe the ugly looks he got. While I may just…
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